Sunday, 29 August 2010

Highest obesity rate in the region.


Really? In Brunei? Haha.. Well.. since its Ramadan, where food are in abundance, I thought I just want to post this article for all of us to read and ponder. I am not at all surprise with the statistic, especially during this Ramadan month, people in Brunei LOVES to eat! I don’t have the latest statistic but the most recent ones were saying around 45 % of adult females and males are overweight here. Very telling. I don’t think it would be much difference on the statistic anyway. Food is such an integral part of everyday life here, which is very true. Where ever you go, its food and more food. Food business flourishes here. There are even many food blogs!

Why does this happen? I think its in our culture. In the old days, people perceptions are, if you are fat then you are healthy, lol. We used to be eating a lot. Even when we were young. I remember when I was little, my mom forced me to eat and finished everything on my plate. She will chase us around with food if we didn’t want any. Those habits now becoming a lifestyle where we just couldn’t live without good food. I wish my mom didn’t have to do that! Even in Islam we are taught to eat moderately and not to indulge oneself to the maximum. But still no body or less people listen and practice this. I think its time for a wake up call.

Just look at Japan, they only have 3% obesity rate. I never been to Japan but I know from tv or movies, most of them are so slim. You wont be able to see fat people walking away. Except for the sumo wrestlers, who are a minority and eat differently from others in their culture.

And here are some interesting facts I found from the internet on Japanese eating habits.

The Japanese generally eat twice as much fish as they do meat. Salmon, sardines and tuna are high in good fat. I actually love fish but we don’t seem to get more of that, for obvious reason, no time to go to the market lol. I wish I could eat more fish though.

Japan is a veggie nation. They eat lots and lots of vegetables. I can take vegetables more these days, not like in my younger days, I didn’t like it very much. But now I know all the benefits of taking vegetables so I am trying to eat more of them. And I love salad but unfortunately with lots of mayo dressing! Ayang doesn’t like vegetables very much, just like me when I was her age, which is very bad, but hubby is a vegetable lover and it shows!

Japan eats rice. We do too, but in abundance. I found that rice is a good carbohydrate from my reading. Even though they eat white rice. We don’t take much rice anyway but I think our problem is more to the way the food are cooked.

Portion size & Speed. Japan has smaller portion sizes generally and eating with chopsticks slows them down. All those vegetables takes more time to chew too. I try to keep my portion sizes down but sometimes its so hard to control when we are eating out. I know that I shouldn’t take lots of food during dinner time but this is the time when I am really feeling tired and beat and eating seems to take care of that. It’s a struggle everyday to control what I eat at dinner time.

Dessert: The Japanese usually have fruit for dessert. At home we don’t do dessert but when eating out, we do have lots of dessert choices, most loaded with sugar. That's what makes them taste so good, hahaha. But I don’t eat any cakes, ice cream, soft drinks in a regular basis but still the weight didn’t come off as fast as I wanted.

Variety: The Japanese do not eat the same things every day. They eat 30 different foods a day and 100 different foods a week! All those different vegetables add up. I don’t think we practice the same here. We eat mostly the same thing every day although I try to vary the food but its not easy.

Finally, here's the biggest difference of all: the main drink. Japan drinks Green Tea. What do we drink in Brunei? Teh tarik, what else? People gulp on soft drinks, Air Bandung, Milo Pink! All loaded with milk or sugar. But I do love green tea. I drink it as frequent as I can, its really not that bad. At least I do have something in common with the Japanese, lol…

So there… interesting stuff. Make me think definitely. And I think if we can follow these habit together with other factors such as do regular exercise, reduce stress level, I am sure we all can achieve our ideal weight! How I wish........

Saturday, 28 August 2010

Happy Birthday Hubby!

Today 27th August 2010 is hubby's birthday. So happy birthday to you, from me and Ayang. May Allah bless you with His Rahmah and under his protection. May Allah bless you with good health, wealth, happiness and long life. With lots of love from us... xxxxxxxxxx

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We celebrated hubby's birthday at Charcoal Barbeque & Grill, at their sungkai Buffet. We had a blast, very filling sungkai. There were just so much food and for B$30 its really worth it, especially if you have a big tummy! We didnt eat everything, its just to much to take.

From this onwards, its gonna be picture of food all over this post! lol.

Us at the restaurant.
Some of the food on display for the patrons to indulge in.
Some of the starters/appertisers.

The array of drinks - mostly sparkling juice water & teh tarik. The first on this picture was really nice.

More appertisers.
The desserts table.

Mountain of chocolate. I like this, its so nice, pure heaven lol.

Below the sausages were the rice.

Main course 1
Main course 2

Main course 3
More delicacies


Guess whose food portion is this??

Unique feature - On the table, there was a stop and go sign. Guess what its for?

For this! The waiters keep on sending the skewers to our table. This was after the buffet. And we were just too full and every time they came, we just shake our head and said No, No more! We had put up the Stop sign but they kept on coming. Hubby didnt try any at all. So sayang, hahaa... But too full already I guess.

They kept on coming. There were lamb, beef, prawns, cuttlefish, sausages, chicken thighs and chicken wings skewers, to name a few. There were more!

But we loved what this lady had to offer. Its bbq corn which was really good. Hubby took this only. Thats me (my hand) choosing which one I want lol.

Ayang on her trip to the dessert table.

Birthday Celebrant.
Hubby was too full he couldnt even open his eyes haha.

Charcoal and Barbeque from the outside.

Tuesday, 24 August 2010

Sungkai at home Part 2

More sungkai menu to post!


My chicken sandwich


Fried macaroni with lamb chop


Butter chicken with nestum


Next agenda on the cooking menu - Apple crumble & Chicken and rice casserole


yummy!



Gerai Ramadan at Stadium

We decided to pay a visit to the Gerai Ramadan at the stadium on sunday. Our first visit for this year. And as expected the place was packed. So much food too. The place still very popular amongst the crowd, although there are already so many places selling the sungkai meals. There were only sea of people to see.





Monday, 23 August 2010

The first Muslim Miss USA?

Is this amazing or disappointing?

Miss USA for 2010 is a muslim girl named Rima Fakih. She is a native of Lebanon and moved to the USA with her family. And she is a Muslim and an Arab. And she is reputed to be the first person of her nationality, ethnicity and religion to be named Miss USA. She was named the first muslim winner of Miss USA.

I found this rather confusing. And contradicting. And demoralising. And.. And.. lots of other emotions.

I am not sure what to make of this. During the competition she wore bakinis and revealing clothing and I am not sure where she stands in terms of her religion. Even more confusing, she was saying her participation was supported by her family. I am not here to judge but just want to share my opinion of such a case. As young girl, she is ambitious of course, very passionate to help the world but I don’t think being a Miss USA and Miss Universe is the gateway to do that. There are so many other ways and channels to make your mark in the world, but not like this!

As for my own personal opinion, it is such a shame, such a beautiful young lady, choosing this route. I know in today's world, there are alot like her where Duniawi is more important and of more significant than the afterlife. What I wanted to say is that she can do so much in the world with other means. Especially in the US, she can be a good example to all muslim young ladies in the world. In her own right, being a Muslim. I would never want my own daughter to flaunt her asset for the whole world to see.

Thats my own perspective, there may be other opinions out there. But I guess, whatever it is, at the end of the day, its all up to her. And her family. Enough said.






On 2nd thought, after posting the above..

Did a bit of browsing about the girl and I just realise she is an American girl afterall. Her way of life doesnt really show she really is a true muslim, so I might just be rambling for nothing. But to quote a Muslim girl as Miss USA all over the news was really misleading and incorrect.

Sunday, 22 August 2010

Acar Daging

I wonder if this is a new dish introduced in town. We came to know about it in our office "For Sale" website. Its a cool place by the way, business flourishes there, everybody can sell anything under the sun and the customers are BSP people as well ;). They were sold by a friend so we opted to try it out and see how it taste like. All this time we only knew about acar timun, acar buah, acar limau, etc but not ACAR DAGING!

It costs B$10 per container as below. A bit expensive right? But I think reasonable enough since it is beef/meat. And I didnt know what to expect when I first saw it, it looked a bit fatty and the friend told me to heat it up before eating. Hubby asked if it should be eaten cold but no, definitely need reheating otherwise it doesnt taste so good frozen. I tried it out and it was really good, after reheating it. I asked the friend earlier what it tastes like, and she said, imagine acar timun but instead of timun its meat! LOL. Its not too bad actually. I will ask hubby to taste it later and see what he says!

This is what it looks like, doesnt look very appertising but it was really good.



P/S. Sorry about the pictures. This is using our Sony Cybershoot, no quality at all ;(

Saturday, 21 August 2010

First Outing for Sungkai

Went for sungkai with my parents last night in Kiulap, our first for this Ramadan. As usual the place was packed. And I believed nobody could just come in and sit on any table. All have to be reserved and booked earlier. Otherwise there wont be anynmore seat. Thats how popular these establishments are during Ramadan. Everybody loves to go out and eat!






After 10 months

Our Honda Odyssey is now 10 months old and yesterday it clocked 10,000 km on its speedometer. Hubby and I decided to capture the moment in picture, just for fun. We realised how fast the time flies too. In 2 months time, we will celebrate its 1 year anniversary, lol.

Click here for the story when we brought it home in October 2009.


This is the car while waiting for us to pick up in the showroom.

Friday, 20 August 2010

Short working hours and other stuff in Ramadan

I love Ramadan because...

Well, apart from all the Berakah and Rahmah of this holy month, its the short working hours! The best privilege any Muslim could have for one whole month. I believe most muslim countries including ours here in Brunei do the same.

Wonder why this is done?

As we all know, during Ramadan Muslims refrain from food and drink and this of course may cause fatique and tiredness. Especially in this weather, its so easy to dehydrate and lost focus. People tend to lose much sleep as well. Therefore its only right that the authority reduces the working hours for Muslim to rest and absorb the month more freely. But for me, I don’t really feel any difference working during Ramadan, except for the short working hours of course, which is rather nice. It feels good to be home around 2.30-3pm every day. I have some time to perform my Zohor and Asar (we don’t usually have much time to do this during normal hours), I can rest a little and spend more time in the kitchen preparing the meals for sungkai.

And I find there is always time to do other ibadah as well. I've started reading the Quran translations again. I havent finished reading it since last year and I feel so ashamed of myself. I feel its good for me to know what I am reading so I opted to read the translation and how I feel Allah talk to me in the Quran. Its feel so good to know what Allah is saying and now I can pin point where and how some events happened from the Quran. Wow... Its very powerful. I thanked hubby for recommending this way of reading to me. I really feel so close to Allah. Syukur Alhamdulilah.

Back to the working hours.... Our working hours are the best I think, we finish at 1pm! Yes... 1pm. And its even earlier on Friday. Too bad we live in Bandar and we still have to travel back and reach home around 2.30pm. Imagine those people living in Seria/KB. They must reach home around 1.15pm. Isnt that great! Although I know some of the people working here are really workaholic and they don’t leave office until about 3-4pm. Maybe they think its a good idea just to do your work in the office killing time for sungkai rather than be at home and doze off. Its all up to you. What you think best works for you isn’t it?

The only issue hubby and I have for now is the waking up in the morning. We have sahur around 3.30am, and finishes up around 4.15 – 4.30am. We rest a little, doze a little hahaha... and wake up again around 5am, shower, do our Subuh prayer and off the road around 5.45am. Its kind of tiring for a while. But we still have to do it. And it usually hit us in the early afternoon. Thats when we feel tired and need a few hours of nap to rest. So what I do now is to retire early in the evening. I don’t watch too much tv anymore and try to go to bed around 9.30pm. Then I will feel refresh and enough sleep for the next day.

And Alhamdulilah. So far so good. We are doing ok.

Wednesday, 18 August 2010

Feeling Down


Feeling a bit under the weather today, feeling a bit down somehow. Waiting can be excruciatingly painful sometimes. I guess its not going to happen and its not meant to be.


And I am hoping there is Barakah behind what happened.



So now... I just need to find that positive energy in me so I could just forget about it and move on.

Monday, 16 August 2010

Sungkai At Home

Its the 5th day of holy month of Ramadan. So far so good. Alhamdulilah, I feel wonderful. Hunger pangs almost non existant. Feel slight fatigue around 3-4pm but then its already almost time to break the fast. No different whatsoever when I am fasting or when I am not. Thats the power of Ramadan. And the food we choose for Sahur helps too, I think. We eat little bit of rice then we consume our all time favourite for breakfast - the oats! This meal works wonder, I love it. I feel fine all day. Even during normal days I will be ok all morning with just a cup of oats. Then we also take a few dates, and other fruits like oranges or pears.

Then its time for breaking the fast. Alhamdulilah, so far we havent bought anything from the gerai for our meals. Its all home cook for now which is great. And for drinks we usually opted for Air Bandung, Soya Bean, Lemon Juice or just plain water.

This is my Mee Udang.
My beef stew.
My chicken pasta.
The must have - the dates.
My Chicken wholemeal sandwiches.
My cucur udang.
And my special Msu Sling - made from Dragon fruit & Ice cream soda.
And I forgot to take pictures of my Sphagetti Bolognaise and Bregedil, hehe.