The Good The Bad and the Ugly. The trial and tribulation of being a mother and her every day life. This is my own blog and mine alone, my release and my savior.
Thursday, 31 December 2009
Welcome 2010
The night is starting to get busy tonight, lots been going on here in KL. Its noisy and loud, and I am not really used to it all but this is part of the experience. Nothing more nothing less. But we are in good spirit to be in this milestone, a year older a year wiser.
Whats going on now in Brunei? Logging in to Brudirect I saw the news of Era, the Polar Girl has reached the bottom of the earth. The first Bruneian to do that. She is part of the all women Karspersky Commonwealth Antarctic Expedition. Thats another excellent accomplishment for Brunei.
So welcome 2010. I am looking forward to a smooth and uneventful new year. May this new year will bring more peace to the world and more happiness, health and wealth to all of us. May Allah bless us all with His Rahmah and Hidayah, Amin!
Tuesday, 29 December 2009
Relaxing Time
With full stomach we went straight to get a taxi and off to city centre. Oh its a good idea to order food early while during booking because it will be cheaper and guaranteed. We even booked seats so we get good ones. Got everything sorted and checked in our hotel at around 1am in the morning. The trip from LCC Airport to the city centre took less than one hour with the empty road and the "Formula One" taxi driver! You wont believe how fast this taxi driver drove his taxi. He was really fast but we were not upset with him because he was quite friendly and talkative. And without us realising it we reached the hotel at record time. Phew...
So this is going to be short but exciting holiday for us. No plan whatsoever, and surprisingly nothing much going on here as well. Except for the year end sale, there is nothing much really. But we will still be doing a bit of sight seeing and maybe some shopping before home on friday and back to real life. And back to work and school next week!
So till then, KL here we are.
Sunday, 27 December 2009
Avatar.
Thursday, 24 December 2009
Happy Holiday everyone!
On Tuesday night we went to the Empire Hotel to watch the Christmas tree and Christmas lights. Its fun and lots of people there. We don’t celebrate Christmas though but we just want to absorb the surroundings. We went round and round the hotel, love the decorations and the fake snow, its full of colours and gold is one of my favourite. They also sold Christmas cookies such as chocolate brownies, gingerbread man cookies, etc and other stuff. Some pictures below from the night.
Monday, 21 December 2009
Happy but not so.
Back to what happened this weekend. We are blessed with 3 days of relaxation and it was really cool. Friday we were busy, but Saturday and Sunday were relaxed time. Although I couldn’t get enough of it. Love the book I am reading at the moment, and I spent almost all hours reading it. Saturday my girl wanted to watch New Moon (again!) she watched it already with her friends early December but it seemed she couldn’t get enough of it yet. She even bought the book from the bookstore so she could still be immensed in it, I supposed. We went to Empire cinema for 2.30pm show. I would expect less audience since its been showing for almost a month already but how wrong I was. There are about 30 people watching it, it seemed the movie is still quite popular. Anyway, I thought the movie was a bit slow, but it was emotional towards the end just because Bella was caught between these 2 characters. So I rated it may be 7/10, that’s not too bad. I didnt ask hubby of what he thought of it, since I am not sure if he enjoyed it or not, haha ;-)
After Asar we went to Indoor Stadium for the year end show case. We were expecting a different kind of bazaar but we were bitterly disappointed. It’s the same old thing, over and over again. Nothing much to see even to buy so its nothing much to report.
Wish the weekend drags on. But I am happy to say I am gonna be away from office next week and fly off to KL for a week. It’s a tradition for us to be away in December, with all the festivities it’s a good time to be away from the office and enjoy the downtime. We wanted to spend some family quality time and witness all the celebrations, esp the Christmas lights and new year activities. So we decided to visit KL, since we haven’t been to KL may be 3 years. So look forward to that.
One thing worrying me is that my girl no longer has transportation to send her to school. Her previous driver decided to stop their bus operations due to some students didn’t pay up their monthly fees. I was really upset with how irresponsible some parents are. If your children need transportation then you go and pay what is due. And because of this, those really needed the bus service no longer able to rely on it because of you irresponsible people. So my task is now to look for other alternatives which seemed so hard to come by. I am really anxious about this, but I am hoping something will come up soon. I just hope 2010 will not begin with a rough start.
Thursday, 17 December 2009
Selamat Tahun Baru Hijrah 1431
Cara membaca doa akhir tahun dan awal tahun hijrah
Istigfar 7x, Astagr ‘fi rullah hal a’zim- al lazi la i laa ha iil la- hu wal hai yul qai’ yum wa atu bu ilaih
Baca Surah Al Fatihah
Astagr ‘fi rullah hal a’zim inn nahu kaa na rrof’ faa raa, 21 atau 7 x
Astagr ‘fi rullah hal a’zim inn nahu kaa na taw waa baa, 21 atau 7 x
La ilaa ha illa anta sub’haan na ka inni kuntu minaz zaa li min, 21 atau 7x
Segala pujian itu bagi ALLAH, TUHAN pentadbir Seluruh alam. Rahmat dan sejahtera atas penghulu kami Nabi Muhamad dan atas keluarga dan syahabat2 baginda sekalian.
Ya ALLAH, wahai TUHAN kami, perkara2 yg telah kami lakukan daripada perbuatan2 yg dikau larang dalam tahun ini, maka kami belum bertaubat daripada nya, padahal TUHAN kami TIADA meredha’ie dan TUHAN kami memang tiada lupakannya (TUHAN tiada bersifat lupa) dan TUHAN kami berlembut tiada mengazabkan kami, malah memberi peluang supaya kami bertaubat selepas kami menceburkan diri melakukakn maksiat itu. Maka kami sekalian mohon keampunan mu Ya Allah, Ampun kan lah kami, dan mana2 perbuatan yg telah kami lakukan sepanjang2 tahun ini, yg TUHAN kami meredhainya dan TUHAN kami telah pun menjanjikan ganjaran pahala kerananya, maka kami sekalian mohon Ya ALLAH, TUHAN yg mempunyai kebesaran dan kemulia’an semuga TUHAN kami perkenankan akan perbuatan (amal bakti) yg telah kami lakukan itu dan tidak TUHAN kami menghampakan harapan kami, Ya ALLAH TUHAN yg maha pemurah.
Doa Awal Tahun Hijrah,
Setelah selesai sembahyang fardhu magrib.
Segala pujian itu bagi ALLAH TUHAN pentadbir seluroh alam, rahmat dan sejahetra atas penghulu kami Nabi Muhamad dan atas keluarga dan syahabat2 baginda sekalian.
Ya ALLAH, wahai TUHAN kami, dikaulah jua TUHAN yg kekal selama-lama nya, sedia ada lagi tiada permulaan. Kelebihan mu maha besar dan kemurahan mu amat limpah yg sangat2 diharapkan.
Tibalah sudah tahun baru, kami mohon kepadamu agar terpelihara kami sekalian didalam tahun baru ini daripada tipu daya syaitan yg terlaknat, juga daripada kuncu2 syaitan dan bala tenteranya.
Dan kami mohon daripada mu akan pertolongan mengalahkan runtunan nafsu amarah (nafsu yg mendorong kepada jalan2 kejahatan).
Kami mohon juga kepada mu Ya ALLAH, akan rasa sedia ingin membuat kerja2 kebajikan yg bulih mendampingkan diri kami kepada mu. Ya ALLAH, TUHAN yg maha agung lagi yg maha mulia. Ya ALLAH, TUAHN sebaik2 yg mengurniakan rahmat, barang dicucuri rahmat apalah kiranya Ya ALLAH dan juga sejahtera atas junjungan kami Nabi Muhamad serta keluarga dan syahabat2 baginda sekalian, segala pujian itu bagi ALLAH TUHAN pentadbir seluruh alam.
Al Fatihah
Wednesday, 16 December 2009
So sad
Its all over the news, almost every day. I think its about time the world stop bickering over him. Its his business and private life. So leave it at that. Leave him alone already.
A lonely figure of Elin (Wood’s wife) yesterday.
Tuesday, 15 December 2009
First time!
But we tried not to drive it to KB too often though. We were a little bit concern on the mileage thingy. Afterall it takes almost 200km to and from work and just imagine what that can do to cars! We want to preserve it as much as we can and not to give it too much wear and tear. Afterall we want this car for a long time yet.
Friday, 11 December 2009
Our pet rabbit... One year on!
I would rather have a rabbit than a cat. For one, rabbit is so quiet. No noise at all, you hardly know she is there. Rabbit is such a joy to have around the house. Everytime we open her cage, she would jump out and run around the house like crazy, and in the end settle at her favourite spot near our couch. When she was little, she used to jump on our sofa all the time, and deposit her things on it. Oh.. she is now one year 3 months old and been with us a year this month. I don’t want her to jump on the sofa and make a mess so I yelled “No!” and gestured her to jump down so she knew I was angry and she would she jumped down very quickly. She doesn’t do that any more.
Rabbit is so easy to train. Our rabbit is litter trained. She doesn’t go and do her things anywhere but in her cage or her litter box. My girl loves to pick her up and cuddle her. She will lay still or even close her eyes when my girl does that, so cute.
She is easy to look after too. This is how her days are spent with us. We don’t need to bath her and she always keep herself clean (more like a cat, licks her fur all the time). But we do need to trim or clip her nails at least once a month. This can be very tricky most of the time. She doesn’t like her feet to be touched so much. So its hard to hold them in place and clip the nails. It used to be a struggle. But then we found a good way to do this, and I must praise my girl for it. Since our rabbit loves to be cuddled, she enjoys it so much that she even close her eyes and be in a trance for a long time. She can even do that with her legs up in the air. So during this time, my girl will start to clip her nails with her special clippers and waalaa…. Its done!
She doesn’t go out of he cage so much when we are at work or when our girl is at school. But my girl always make sure she goes out of her cage every night while my girl cleans her cage. This is the best time for her, she jumps out and does her binky and look so cute and cuddly. (oh.. binky is when she jumps in the air and twist her body in mid air, meaning she is happy!)
We give her meals twice a day. In the morning she gets to have her pellets, dry food from the pet shop and also her hay. At night she usually get at least 2 types of vegetables. We don’t give her fruits so much since most fruits are sweet and sugary and its not good for her health. But she does get it occasionally.
Her only shortcoming is that she doesn’t want to do anything we want her to do. Like teach her some tricks or skills. She is simply not interested LOL!!! But she is still such a cute little feline.
So there.. we would like to have more rabbits at home, since one is so lonely. But we need to figure out where to keep them. At the moment, our rabbit is living in our living room!
Hope you enjoy pictures of our rabbit, oh,.. by the way her name is Robbie. Isnt she cute?
Wednesday, 9 December 2009
My guitar girl.
Monday, 7 December 2009
Guitar lesson
There was this music shop in KB where we stumbled upon during lunch which has guitars with different colours except purple. No purple guitar around I am afraid. But it was really great to see those colourful guitars, and they were cheap too only around B$70. I almost bought one for her. Almost! if not stopped by hubby. He told me we needed to check with Ayang first on what colours she wanted so we ended up not buying.
Then yesterday, the teacher told us, those cheap guitars wouldn’t last and they will hurt your finger tips easily. Especially for beginners like my girl. And added we should choose the guitar wisely and not be tempted with the cheap ones. Ohhh… ok, we were so not knowing anything about it, again. So we then bought one for Ayang looked like this, with a cover and some guitar books for her lesson.
So its all started. She started her lesson yesterday. She was excited big time but already complained she was given homeworks to do, lol. So there you go. If you want to learn that’s what you have to do.
Friday, 4 December 2009
My Rant
So the process started off about a month ago. Its not straight forward I tell you, there are so many procedures to go through.
Firstly, we went every week to JPD to see if the new wanted number was already on tender until the day came,when it did we just went for it. We spent B$125 for us to get it, B$100 for the tender and B$25 for the registration. Happy that was out of the way. Next we waited a few days to get that sorted, once that’s done, next step, wait for a letter from JPD to say they have no problem of us changing to the new number. This took 2 weeks. Just to get that letter. I am still being patient, and I am not so surprise with things takes so long to get done here.
Got the letter last Saturday. We were asked to bring the letter to the Financing Bank where the Hire Purchase Agreement is. The Bank will then produce another letter to say they have no problem for us to have the new number. The letter was done in about 5 minutes and it costed us B$100!!! WTF?? I was almost slipped off my seat. How could that be so expensive? B$100 for one piece of paper which was processed within 5 minutes? I asked the lady why it was so expensive. She just shrugged her shoulder and said its for their processing fee. What processing fee? To print one lousy standard letter from their printer and got it signed by whoever is their boss in 5 minutes??
Tell me what you guys think? Afterall, this is a local Bank and should support the local people, at least lessen the burden. But hey.. I don’t know whats the agenda here but it was really ridiculous to be charged B$100 for that letter. I was really pissed beyond words. I don’t know how much other banks charge for this though. Pls enlighten me, people!
But there was no turning back, I have to part with my hard earned cash, with a broken and heavy heart. My God. I was still determined and off I went back to JPD and they charged me another B$65 for the change of number, again. So it really was beyond any sane comprehension to pay all these money for such a simple matter.
Well.. this is not over yet. We haven’t got our number on the car yet. So there sure it more to come. Next week. We will bring the car to JPD with the new number get it inspected, (for what??? Its a brand new one month old car for God’s sake) and then its done. And I am bracing myself for more payment next week.
So here is what I spent to get this new number. And its is just a common number nobody wants. I wonder how much would I have to spend it its a nicer number, like 5555 or 8888. It will be double ridiculous.
Tender & Registration : B$125
Letter from Finance Bank : B$100
Register new number : B$65
So for now we have spent : B$290, minus next week.
So that’s it people. Can someone from Baiduri answer this for me please?
Wednesday, 2 December 2009
December!
Tuesday, 1 December 2009
Alhamdulilah
She told me her dream was for her to play guitar and sing on stage. She said she was ok being on stage and she has done quite ok when talking for an audience. In fact she has done that a few times during school presentations so that’s good to know. I think for now she is just entering into her own element of music, which line of music she is interested in so hopefully by sending her to this music school she will achieve her dreams and be a good guitar player.
Friday, 27 November 2009
Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Adha
To all Muslims around the world, Happy Eid ul-Adha.
As any other festivities, we are one day late. Brunei celebrates Eid ul-Adha on Saturday, way to late than in Makkah or Mina where they went to Ukuf on Thursday. Anyway, its going to be different for us this year. For donkey years we never celebrated Eid ul-Adha as much and intense as Eid Fitri except going to the Masjid to perform the Eid ul-Adha prayer and that was it. Even the whole of Brunei there were never any actual celebrations except maybe for those who have family performing the Hajj, they gather around the house and do thanksgiving ceremony with relatives. And of course who do the deeds of slaughtering the animals for Ibadah Korban will gather around the designated places to distribute the meat to the needy, friends or family. We don’t have all those this year but we intend to stretch it a bit further by doing an open house for family.
Its going to be Saturday night. My brother invited us for his own open house at lunch so we take the night spot. So its going to be fun for family to have two houses to feast on.
And I am going to cook these dishes
Black pepper beef
Chicken Kieve
Fish curry
Vege –still under negotiation with hubby lol
Fried Mussles
Macaroni cheese
And for dessert:
Tiramisu
Curry puff (this one I bought)
I think that’s about it. And its going to be busy Saturday for me. I am looking forward to all the cooking although I am feeling so tired and beat these days. My shoulder is killing me and I have this dull feeling on top of my head for a long time.
And below is the pictures of Masjidil Haram in Makkah yesterday at Isyak prayers (curi from PDKM blog hehe). Look at all those people! Very beautiful and makes me miss Makkah so much. Labbai Qallah WalaLabbaiq...
Tuesday, 24 November 2009
New Moon
So I did this. I watched the first movie, “Twilight”. Not at the cinema since the movie was aired a year ago but on our living room. My girl urged me to watch the first movie first, that’s what I did, last Sunday night. I had a low expectation and I even prepared myself for a little dissapointments. So I just watched it merely to accompany her since the movie started at 10pm on our tv. But I kind of liked it. Its unique and different. I haven’t watched a vampire movie for a long long time, maybe since Brad Pitt became one, ages ago……. Doesn’t that show how old I am??? lol
Aahh.. Twilight.. At least I knew what to expect. I knew the scene will be dull and gloomy. The casts (the vampire especially) will be pale, white and ghoulish. I mean that’s how people did vampire movies right? and I was correct. But the storyline was kind of nice. How this girl was brave enough to confront her vampire friend and tried to find out as much as possible about this friend, until they fell in love. And I didn’t even know vampire don’t sleep or eat. There were also some elements of profound illogical aspect to it, like, since when do they sparkle in the sunlight? But its sure is interesting to watch and it could be fun to learn a little bit more about all these mystical creatures.
I have seen so many reviews about NM. Is it good or better then Twilight? It has good reviews so far, for those who were crazy about Twilight should definitely watch NM. But if you haven’t watched Twilight then maybe you shouldnt go and see NM. You may be at lost and suffer the consequences of living in the dark (no pun intended!) for the whole durations of the movie, so to speak.
So what about me? Should I be there amongst the youngsters and do all the oooooohhhhhh and Aaaaaaahhhhhhhh, lol, my girl thought Edward was cute though.
Now, if I want to be honest with myself, I would have to ask these questions. Am I a recently committed “Twilighter” who would definitely plunk down some cash to go and see the movie or maybe I am still sitting on the "Twilight" fence, unsure whether to go or not. Well still havent got the answer….
So should I watch Edward and Bella again? My girl is certainly interested.
Monday, 23 November 2009
Congratulations!
As usual too, you will always be in my prayers, day and night. May Allah bless you with His abundance of Rahmah and Hidayah. Looking forward to your next accomplishments in the near future...
Mommy loves you always and forever.
Monday, 16 November 2009
2012
My girl was quiet for the whole duration, I kept on looking at her and asked her how she was doing. I was worried she might not enjoy the movie but she said she was ok. Maybe she was as overwhelmed as me but she usually didn’t say anything. For some reasons, a few people went in and out of the theatre throughout the duration of the movie. I wondered why? Was it they couldn’t stand the capacity of the sounds and camera tricks? I dunno. But this movie will make you tired for sure. Well it did for me, since its not my cup of tea. For those who used to watch violent movie, this may be just a piece of cake!
There were a lot of people in the cinema yesterday. Never seen as many people there for a while, I didn’t know why people were interested to see it. Good publicity? Or what? I even noticed very unfamiliar looking people there too. I mean those who never went to a cinema, the goody goody people, the aunties and uncles, if you know what I mean. Wasn’t that awesome? What this movie could do to attract viewers? Then something struck me. Was it because this movie is about end of the world? The world doomsday? And there was even emails flying around for a while about this? That’s yet to be proven and as a Muslim we do not know when that is although it sure will happen.
It was a long movie though. 2 ½ hrs in total, an epic adventure for the movie goers and I didn’t even realize the time. The movie started around 4pm and earlier hubby wanted to see the sunset after that and took some good photos but it finished way too late at around 6.30pm when it was aleady dark and raining lol. So scapped the idea and went for dinner at the Thai Restaurant instead.
Phew… what a Sunday.
Friday, 13 November 2009
That Bruneian girl
I don’t know how she was selected, as I mentioned there was not enough coverage of her achievement prior to the expedition. What a girl! Imagine being in the South Pole blizzards and snow with temperature below –30C. Not everyone wants to do it even given the chance. Its not an easy challenge, it will test her endurance and her self perseverance and willpower. Mind over matters. Important aspect for being strong.
The expedition is to mark the 60th anniversary of the Commonwealth and the aims are to demonstrate the intercultural understanding and exchange while at the same time highlighting the achievements of women across the world.
I will follow her journey through here, for me its very exciting and challenging. Wish I could be there and see Antarctica for myself since I love snow so much! Hehehe. I don’t mind being in the snow actually. Although I MAY change my mind if I ever was in Antarctica, it can be a rude wake up call for me! lol.
I don’t wish my girl to go through the same ordeal though. Well, but if she is interested then that’s a different story. But looking at how challenging this expedition will be its not for the soft hearted. Maybe Era is the strong one, then its ok. I am hoping she will do Brunei proud, So good luck. You go girl!
Here is the link to read more of their adventure.