The Good The Bad and the Ugly. The trial and tribulation of being a mother and her every day life. This is my own blog and mine alone, my release and my savior.
Friday, 26 October 2012
Tuesday, 23 October 2012
A Level Exam
My daughter is having her biggest exam right this moment. I am nervous and she is nervous. This is by far the most important exam in her student life. The exam has just started and will drag on until end of November.
She really works hard, she studies every day, spends her days with her books and revision papers. She knows how important this exam is. Because this is the link to that bright future. Just another small step to set her foot at the University.
I am so proud on how tentative and focus she is in her studies. I couldnt ask for more.
All I can do is to support her and pray to Allah that her dreams will come true, Amin.
Monday, 22 October 2012
Reading the Quran
As I get older, I began to realise that I need to focus more on my own religious obligations and what I can do to secure my place in the afterlife. I know we are not going to live forever and its time (before its too late!) to think about the Akhirah and Alam Barzakh.
I used to be so ignorant, well... I did all the things a Muslim must do or mustnt do but there were times when I feel I was a bit lacked and too busy with the world affairs that my religious obligations seemed to take a back seat. It took a tremendous effort to go to the right track and more often than not, its quite a struggle.
As I said when I get older, I started to regret what I've lost and now I try my absolute best and willpower to make up for the lost time or Pahala. I want to be a good Muslim, do all Allah ask me to do, all the good deeds and hoping my amal ibadat will be accepted, Insya Allah.
One of the things that I intend to do in great abundance is to read the Quran. I've started doing this for the past few years already but all these time through the conventional way, read through the book. Apart from reading the Arabic Verses, I also like to read the translations so that I know what I am reading. Hubby and I bought Quran books with translations, although sometimes its so hard to read the translation due to the way it was written, like one of our books its written with Indonesian dialect which could be so confusing and took a bit of time to understand.
Then this past few months, we found a good source of Quran from the internet. Its so easy to read and the translations are also very easy to understand, either in English or Malay.
Now I enjoy reading the Quran using this link. I know where all those Arabic verses we always utter comes from. I understand what the Quran is telling us from the translation. Such an eye opener and I feel so blessed that I am able to embrance the words, its ALLAH words afterall, Alhamdulilah.
If anybody wants to know, this is the website of the Quran I am currently reading. Its quite good, I think the website is originated from Malaysia so its quite easy to understand the translation.
Below is the front page on the website, where we could just click each link to read the Surah. I am so grateful that someone created this website (and other Quran sites also), because since its in the internet we could just read it anywhere and everywhere I want via my laptop, Ipad or even my handphone, Alhamdulilah....
Wednesday, 17 October 2012
14 Days...
Hubby is now in Makkah performing the Hajj. Its been 2 weeks since he was gone. I didnt join him, how I wish I could but our daughter is having her most important exam so I must scrap the idea and stay here for now.
Miss him lots but I know he is there performing the most obligatory and one of the pillars of Islam. I pray to Allah all his Amal Ibadat and good deeds will be accepted by the Al-Mighty. And I know me and my daughter will follow suit, maybe next year or the next year, Allah knows better and He is the best planner. I leave it to Him to decide when our time will come.
I really miss Kaabah, Makkah and Medinah. I was there in 1999 and 2002 for Umrah. Its the most special and spiritual experience, even now I still able to feel that special feeling when I first saw Kaabah. So undescrible, Masya Allah. And I wanted to go again, be there amongst the millions of muslim. Insya Allah my time will come.
We talk on the phone and text a few times every day, hubby told me everything he saw in Medinah or Makkah. He sent me some pictures and I am in awe. Its from his very own eyes and his Samsung camera. Its special to me because its from him, my other half. I've followed a number of blogs from people who stay in Makkah with lots of lots of pictures of Kaabah, Makkah or Medinah all these time but the pictures sent by hubby for me are much more precious.
For now, I guess I am into preparing myself for the journey although I dont know when that would be. Hubby told me they took 10 hours ride on the bus to reach Makkah from Medinah the other day. They lacked sleep, tired but doing wonderfully well. There are millions of muslims now in Makkah gearing up for Hajj next week and the Masjidil Haram is always full all the time, and especially so during the 5 Waktus. So they have to be at the Masjid at least 1 hr before each prayer. And he is already on his way to the Masjid at 3am in the morning every day to get a good seat at the Masjid for Subuh.
One thing for sure, health and physical endurance are paramount. Therefore one need to be healthy to be properly performing the Hajj, besides the mental and emotional stability and strong will power, not to mention the spiritual wellbeing that we are really ready to face this sacret journey, Insya Allah.
From hubby Samsung hp camera, Masya Allah, what a beauitful sight. |
Another picture from outside the Masjid, look at those people! |
Saturday, 13 October 2012
BEKAM - My first time
I've been having this cronic shoulder pain for quite a while now. Its kind of pressuring pain on my shoulder I guess due to the prolong sitting in the office. I think also because all the driving I did before when I worked in Seria. Maybe also because of my posture, weight or even the aircond I am exposed to in my bedroom (my aircond was right on top of my bed before).
Its debilitating and painful, it came to a stage where I couldnt lift my arms without feeling the pressure. I have gone to a few massages in the past, trying to ease the pain but the pain always come back after a few days. Then I heard about Bekam (Cupping in English) and wanted to try it out but I didnt know any bekam place in Brunei. Well I know bekam but I have a very limited knowledge of it. I only knew there was bekam darah which sounds so scary and painful. I am not sure if I am ready for that. To see blood? Nooooo.... Then my friend told me there is Bekam Angin (no bleeding at all) and its good for back ache or any muscle pain. Thats sounds quite ok for me and she introduced me to this place at Kiulap called Coral Spa.
No idea of it, but I was determined to try and did so yesterday. I didnt know what to expect at first because this was my first time. The place was ok, two floors of different therapies for men (up one floor) and another floor just for the ladies. They have lady therapist from Thailand and China and I opted for a lady from China called Syasya. She was very friendly and did a good job with her job and I was satisfied with what she did. The treatment inclusive of massage and cupping and lasted for about 1hr. The cost is B$40 only.
My experience on the bekam? Quite painful for a first timer! Very uncomfortable at first and she was surprised on how tired my body was! I was really really full of "angin" she said. And I could see the prove when I say what was inside the cups! Quite scary though on how serious my problem was. And the bekam on my back was really needed and afterwards my back was full of red traces of the cups. I am sure this gonna take at least a few days to fade!
Anyway I am hoping my shoulder pain will be ease. And I could feel the difference afterwards, my body was lighter and I think I wanted to come back and do it again!
The Coral Spa at Kiulap |
Entrance to the Coral Spa |
And below are some article I found in the internet about Bekam if anybody is interested.
Bekam might be a popular alternative medical treatment across the country but many people still know little about it. Below are some facts about the treatment from a number of sources:
What does bekam mean?
Bekam is a Malay word that means “cupping” when translated literally into English. It is also referred to as “Al Hijama” in Arabic cultures. The “cupping” term refers to the process of attaching cups onto the skin at points requiring treatment, using the “suction effect”. This is induced by a vacuum pump or by burning alcohol or eucalyptus oil.
What are the history and origins of bekam?
The origins of bekam date back to China about 2,000 years ago. Historically, treatment has evolved from early acupuncture practices based on the vital pressure points of the Human Anatomy.
Bekam is widely believed throughout the Islamic cultures of Arabia, Malaysia and Indonesia to be part of the “Prophetic Medicine” — part of the holistic medical treatments advocated by the Prophet Muhammad for both preventive and rehabilitative purposes. Bekam is often popular as “Sehat Alami dan Islami” (naturally healthy and Islamic).
How different is bekam from acupuncture and other forms of physiotherapy?
Bekam differs from acupuncture in its “cupping” process, although it follows the same pressure pattern on the vital energy points of the human anatomy.
Wet cupping specialists regard it as better than acupuncture, as it helps draw out the “bad” or “damaged” blood cells and hence clears the body of toxins.
Bekam is considered very different from physiotherapy as the procedures focus on chi or energy flow and reenergized blood circulation, whereas physiotherapy focuses on muscle and tissue repair and the flexibility of joint movement.
Is bekam suitable for anyone who wants to try alternative medical treatments or therapy for general well-being, the Islamic and holistic way?
Clinically, bekam has been proven not suitable for those diagnosed with malnutrition, severe anemia, Hb < 9.5, edema in almost all parts of the body, a fever of 38 degrees Celsius and above, blood coagulation anomalies and senility.
It is also not recommended for children under five years, pregnant women, psychotic patients, epileptics, patients in critical health conditions, patients with contagious diseases such as HIV or leprosy and those with severe skin problems.
What specific diseases can bekam help cure?
Private interviews with doctors and patients reveal that bekam can “aid”, in a natural sense, thyroid problems, early stages of cancer (such as lymphoma, leukemia), gall bladder problems, gastritis, hypertension, high cholesterol, diabetes, stroke, impotence, premature ejaculation, arthritis, gout, malaria, asthma, bronchitis, fatty liver and several types of allergies.
However, there is very little information available on bekam in published medical research journals, although there are plenty of websites on the topic.
Monday, 8 October 2012
Chicken and Brocolli Chesserole
One of the things I like to do during my free time is to try new recipe. I like to try not a difficult one which requires never heard of recipe or too complicate to prepare meals, but more to simple, nice and fulfilling dishes which can be prepared in the shortest possible time.
And I found this one from the internet which took me less than 15 minutes to prepare, well.. the only thing that took a bit of time to do was cooking the chicken meat, the rest was chicken!
Here are the recipe:
Ingredients
• 4 ounces dried medium noodles
• 2-1/2 cups chopped cooked chicken or turkey
• 1 10-ounce package frozen chopped broccoli, thawed
• 1/2 cup sliced green onions
• 1 10-3/4-ounce can condensed cream of mushroom soup
• 1/2 cup skim milk
• 1/2 cup shredded Swiss cheese (2 ounces)
• 1 teaspoon dried basil, crushed
• 1/8 teaspoon pepper
• Paprika
Directions
1. Cook noodles according to package directions. Drain well.
2. In a 2-quart casserole stir together noodles, chicken or turkey, broccoli, and green onions.
3. In a medium mixing bowl stir together soup, milk, cheese, basil, and pepper. Stir into noodle mixture.
4. Bake, covered, in a 350 degree F oven for 40 to 45 minutes or until heated through. Sprinkle with paprika. Makes 6 servings.
5. Make-Ahead Tip: Prepare casserole; cover and chill up to 24 hours. Bake as above.
Its quite nice, although it was a bit too cheesy for me with the mushroom soup, milk and cheese in our helping. But my daughter loved it!
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